goresan hidup seorang biduan

Selasa, 15 April 2014

HIDUP UNTUK BANYAK ORANG



Who’s your world favorite idol ? Is it Micahel Jakson, Donald Trump, Justin Bieber, Warren Buffet, or Encu Syamsudin ? ( The last one..Who the hell is he ?). No matter who he is, I’m really sure that he has been a great role model for the others. The prominent figure, must have given big contribution for people’s life both when he’s alive and died.

There’re so many people in the world, Billions. But could you tell me how many names that you still remember ? Just a few. Most of them are just like the average ones whose names are recognized by few men when he’s alive and sculpted on gravestone when he’s died. THAT IS IT. People only see his name on gravestone, dull and die. No one will remember him anymore. No one can feel his contribution. No one feel sorry for his death. Even nobody thinks that he’s ever lived in the world.

Then, what makes differences between a man whose name is lasting for a long time and the ones whose name just sculpted on grave stone ? It’s clear enough that is easier to remember good people with great contribution than the average ones who give nothing for people.

Who are the good men ? What do they look like ? What do they do for people ? They are some men who never get satisfaction before doing something better for their society and people around them. They live to present happiness, wealth, and changes for better life. The wider better changes he’s created, the more people will remember his name.

And how about the averages ones who only have such an egoist dream, a nice dream for their own selves ? They live with a dream to be a rich men and popular, without doing something good for the others. Their dream is restricted just for their own sake. It’s absolutely easy to find such the people. See most people around you, ask some elementary or senior high school students, what would they say about their ambition ? They’d prefer to say go to school and get good score, attending college in a great university then work in a fancy company, earn so much money  to be able to build a nice house, and then find a beautiful chick and get married. The ambition doesn’t stop there, he has to find a way to earn much more money for his wife and children and save much more money for his retirement period. At the time he’s getting older, he buy a house in a village and enjoy the peace atmosphere of village while waiting for Izrail coming to say “Hello” and take him to nirvana. 


It’s extremely different with life style of great people who wish to give more contribution for the world. Read their biographies in history ! how they live…How many useful things they have given for human being in the world…Other people is their priority, NOT their own selves.

They even would rather to sacrifice their own desire for  other people’s happiness. Look at our Independence Heroes. They didn’t live in such comfortable castle. What they did is to devote their body and soul for Indonesia Independence.

David T. Kyle, Ph.D said that if the empathy was really strong, we must have a capacity to not only to understand what other people thinking and feeling, but also must feel and experience the same thing about what other people experiencing. In a higher level, he’s gonna be able to connect himself with the other. He must feel what the other’s feeling physically and mentally.  

Most of people who’s chosen to devote their selves in serving people tend to have higher quality life. Look at some businessmen with their entrepreneurship, they’re able to provide jobs vacation for others. Look at some motivators who never get tired in giving people motivation to survive and get their dreams. Look at some employers who have devoted their selves for glory of their company. All of them are be able to succeed because they focus on giving contribution for others, not only focus on personal happiness.

For me, personally, THE INDICATOR OF WEALTH is not measured by how many people who work, but it’s measured by how many orphans that have been cared.
It’s not measured by how many factories have been built, but it’s measured by how many schools for poor people have been funded.
It’s not measured by how much money have been saved, but it’s measured by how much properties have been donated.

Senin, 14 April 2014

HARTA, DUSTA, dan WANITA




……..Life,,what’s life ?  Life may be amount of problems, It could be happiness for lucky guys, Or it could be fucki’ troubles for poor unfortunate guys. Actually I neither  gonna tell you the exactly definition of life nor I ask you to pay any attention while I’m telling the following extremely messy life story. But thank you for visiting my Blog anyway.
     
Tell me, who is the lucky guy does’t have any problem !!?? CAN you …? No one is free from problem. Whether he’s billionaire or extremely poor ones, MUST face the problem. Unfortunately, ME too. ( Please keep being positive about me )
     
Some body says that money isn’t the most important thing in life.  I just wonder how they can say that money isn’t the most important thing for life, while at the same time they use money to get food, to build luxurious houses, to get married to a beautiful girl they want, and even to have a date with a bad whore. I tell you what, THEY NEED MONEY.

Just for reference, talking about spending – I prefer to say wasting- much money to  get married to a beautiful girl. In this case you may probably say money is everything at the moment. Have you ever imagined how’s your life to be when your fiancée suddenly make up her mind and calling off to be your wife because of money itself. I mean, how about if she suddenly figure out that you’re poor guy with the least money on his hand. What do you feel ? Don’t you feel so hurt ? or for the worst thing you may commit to suicide. It’s a maybe..I tell you a maybe.

Then, some of you may rise your hands for sure and tell me that NOT all girls/women are like such materialistic girl, asshole, or whatever. Some of them are nice girls. Some of them are ready for the worst thing in running a boat called “after-marrige” life, such as have less food to eat on every single day, be homeless, and so on. No matter the worst things gonna happen, they’ll always love their husband FOREVER.

BIG BULLSHIT…I tell you what, women are kind of human being ever created who’re absolutely easy in changing their mind and fight against you in less than a second. That’s the point you have to consider every time you’re dealing with poisonous women/girls.

TAKE THIS OPINION AS A REFERENCE ONLY, NOT AS A CREED.
By : a wise man with uncontrolled anger

Rabu, 02 Oktober 2013

Dapatkan Passive Income dari Bisnis Online


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Selasa, 27 Agustus 2013

The miracle of $1.11 – true story!







Tess was a precocious eight year old when she heard her Mom and Dad talking about her little brother, Andrew. All she knew was that he was very sick and they were completely out of money. They were moving to an apartment complex next month because Daddy didn’t have the money for the doctor bills and our house. Only a very costly surgery could save him now and it was looking like there was no-one to loan them the money. She heard Daddy say to her tearful Mother with whispered desperation, “Only a miracle can save him now.”
Tess went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured all the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall’s Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door. She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good.
Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!
“And what do you want?” the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. “I’m talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven’t seen in ages,” he said without waiting for a reply to his question.
“Well, I want to talk to you about my brother,” Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. “He’s really, really sick… and I want to buy a miracle.”
“I beg your pardon?” said the pharmacist.
“His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?”
“We don’t sell miracles here, little girl. I’m sorry but I can’t help you,” the pharmacist said, softening a little. “Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn’t enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.”
The pharmacist’s brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, “What kind of a miracle does you brother need?”
“I don’t know,” Tess replied with her eyes welling up. “I just know he’s really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can’t pay for it, so I want to use my money.”
“How much do you have?” asked the man from Chicago. “One dollar and eleven cents,” Tess answered barely audibly. “And it’s all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.
“Well, what a coincidence,” smiled the man. “A dollar and eleven cents – the exact price of a miracle for little brothers.” He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said, “Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let’s see if I have the kind of miracle you need.”
That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specialising in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed without charge and it wasn’t long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.
“That surgery,” her Mom whispered. “was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?”
Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost… one dollar and eleven cents … plus the faith of a little child.
Claimed to be a true story
Author Unknown
Submitted by Sumit

Selasa, 04 Juni 2013

MANFAAT DAN FADHILAH SHALAT




Suatu hari ada seorang Bapak-Bapak yang datang kepada seorang ustadz. Dia bilang, “ Ustaz, mengapa ya kok rejeki yang saya dapat rasanya kurang pas gitu ?” ” kurang pas gimana tuh maksudnya?” Tanya sang ustaz.” Ngak pas sama latar pendidikan saya, gak pas sama apa yang saya inginkan. Ada ya gak, ustaz, jalan keluarnya supaya saya bisa mendapatkan apa yang saya harapkan?”

Sang ustaz pun bertanya kepada Bapak itu,” Pak, shalaynya Bapak gimana, udah pas apa belum?”

“ Maksudnya ,ustaz?”

“ Iya, selama ini Bapak shalatnya sudah tepat waktu belum ? berjamaah atau tidak ? Sudah melakukan shalat-shalat sunahnya apa belum ? Kalau masih belum mendingan Bapak pulang dulu. Ini dulu diberesin, jangan melangkah ke yang lain dulu, shalatnya dulu dibenerin.”

“Itu saja, ustaz?” Tanya si Bapak.

“ Itu dulu. Bukan itu saja. Masih ada yang lain. Inget-inget ini hari apa, tanggal berapa. Persis sebulan lagi, Bapak datang kemari lagi, saya kasih tip yang lain.”

“Baik, ustaz”.

“ Oh ya, sekarang kerja di mana emang?”

“Saya gak punya kerjaan ustaz?”

“ Berarti bukan cuma gak pas donk. Ya sudah kalau bener begitu, benerin shalatnya dulu”.

Akhirnya Bapak itu pulang. Sebulan kemudian Bapak itu dating lagi menemui ustaz. Tapi berbeda dengan kedatangannya sebulan yang lalu, kali ini wajahnya kelihatan lebih senang. Dia datang membawa anggur dan buah-buahan lainnbya. Begitu datang dia langsung mengacungkan dua jempolnya ke ustaz,” Top banget ustaz, top dahh”, Sang ustaz bingung, “ Top apaan nih, dateng-dateng langsung top-top aja loe!” Shalat memang nomor satu ustaz. Saya datang ke ustaz hari senin , begitu sampai rumah saya mikir-mikir, selama ini saya minta rezeki kepada Allah, tetapi perintah Allah saya remehin. Saya mintanya sama Allah, tetapi ketika adzan berkumandang saya acuhin. Saya mulai shalat tepat waktu, jemaah tidak pernah bolong, saya juga tambah dengan shalat sunah, qabliyah, ba’diyah, hajat, tahajud. Hari Jum’at saya dapat panggilan kerja yang gajinya dua kali lipat dari gaji yang dulunya saya terima.”

Sejak lama saya percaya segala perintah yang diwajibkan maupun disunahkan pasti mengandung keajaiban, termasuk shalat. Shalat merupakan metode yang disediakan oleh Tuhan untuk mengembalikan manusia kepada fitrahnya. Melalui shalat Tuhan juga ingin memotivasi manusia bahwa kesuksesan hidup di dunia ini tidak sulit untuk dicapai jika ia percaya pada kehadiran Tuhan pada semua aktivitas yang dikerjakannya.

Dari lafal adzan saja kita bisa mengambil banyk sekali hikmah yang menautkan segala yang kita kerjakan dengan prinsip ketauhidan.

Allahuakbar, Allahuakbar. Allah Maha Besar, tidak ada satu pun makhuk di dunia ini yang kebesarannya mengalahkan kebesaran Tuhan. Rezeki itu kecil. Kekayaan itu kecil. Nasib manusia itu kecil. Bahkan bumi dengan seluruh isinya juga kecil. Menjungkirbalikan sesuatu yang kecil-kecil itu bukanlah perkara yang sulit bagi-Nya. Dia maha kuasa atas segala sesuatu yang ada di semesta. Sertakan Tuhan dalam segala aktivitasmu, maka Dia akan jadi penolong yang lebih hebat ketimbang apa pun.

Asyahaduan lailaha illallah. Tidak ada satu pun makluk didunia ini yang bisa meolong kita pada keberlimpahan hidup jika Allah tidak berkenan. Tidak ada satu pun pekerjaan, aktivitas, maupun jabatan yang  bisa memberikan kebahagiaan dan ketentraman dalam hidup kita, jika Allah hendak memberikan kesengsaraan. Tidak ada satu pun hal yang memiliki kuasa penuh atas hidup kita selain Allah SWT.

Asyahaduanna Muhammadan Rsulullah. Muhammad adalah teladan yang sempurna yang dihadirkan oleh Tuhan kepada seluruh umat manusia. Dalam dirinya tersimpan akhlak yang keseluruhannya membuat manusia hidup dalam, kesuksesan.  Beliau diakui oleh sejarawan dunia akan kebesarannya yang kebesarannya berasal dari prinsip hidup dan karakter yang dipegangnya sejak hidup hingga wafatnya. Kepribadiannya memungkinkan untuk ditaati oleh seluruh manusia. Mukjizat terbesarnya bukan membelah lautan, bukan menghidupkan orang yang mati, tapi Al-qur’anul Kariim. Beliau adalah rasul yang perjalanan hidupnya mewakili begitu banyak keadaan manusia.

Hayya ‘ala Sholaah. Marilah shalat. Panggilan muadzin sering kali kita acuhkan. Padahal panggilan itu adalah manifestasi dari mpanggilan Tuhan. Shalat adalah media komunikasi antara hamba dengan Rabb-nya. Panggilan shalat pada hakikatnya adalah panggilan Tuhan agar manusia berkomunikasi dengan-Nya.

Hayya ‘alal falah. Subahanallah, panggilan shalay itu diikuti dengan panggilan meraih kemenangan. Menggapai kesuksesan. Ini memberikan ibrah kepada manusian bahwa shalat merupakan metode yang disediakan Tuhan untuk manusia supaya mendekat dengan pintu keberhasilan. Shalatlah, maka Tuhan akan menyukseskanmu.

Utsman bin Affan Radhiyallahu ‘anh pernah mengungkapkan bahwa ada sembilan kemuliaan shalat tepat waktu, yaitu :
1.     Dia akan dicintai Allah.
2.     Badannya selalu sehat.
3.     Keberadaannya dijaga malaikat.
4.     Rumahnya diberkahi.
5.     Wajahnya menampakkan jati diri yang saleh.
6.     Allah melunakkan hatinya.
7.     Akan melewati shiratul mustaqim seperti kilat.
8.     Diselamatkan dari api neraka.
Allah akan menempatkan di surga dengan orang-orang yang tak ada rasa takut