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Senin, 19 Mei 2014

Three Advices from Yahya bin Muadz




“ If you can’t give any benefit, just be nice. If you can’t make people happy,  don’t give them any misery. If you can’t appreciate, please don’t underestimate”

In days long gone by, Yahya bin Muadz gave three advices that all moslem should do. They are :
1.      If you can’t give any benefit, just be nice.
Rasululloh SAW told us that the best man is one who gives best contribution for the others.  The only one reason that man created in this world is just being a khalifah and devotee. Khalifah has an important role as God’s deputy to create prosperity in the earth. Being khalifah isn’t a simple job since he has to be a front man in solving many problems both socially and politically. Being khalifah has made human take central roles solving humanity complication.
It’s told that the best man is one who gives best things for the others. It means that the worst man is the one who threatens the others. It’s shameful enough for us to give nothing for our society. For that case, it’s gonna be the worst thing if we still do harmful thing to the others.

2.      If you can’t make people happy,  don’t give them any misery.
It sounds like the first advice before. The difference is on the quantity of problems that’s is created. The case in the first advice prefer to create problem physically, but in this second advice emphasize more on psychological and emotional problems.

3.       If you can’t appreciate, please don’t underestimate.
A few appreciation often give significant effect for one’s development both physically and emotionally. It’s the nature of human being to be appreciated. Every ones want it and absolutely need it. 
 
THIS SHORT ARTICLE IS WRITTEN FOR ALL MOSLEM WHO’S LOOKING FOR HIGHEST VALUE

By : a handsome guy who takes a bath twice  day

Kamis, 08 Mei 2014

KEEP BEING POSITIVE




Where is positive and negative power from?  It’s our mind which play the main role in deciding being positive or negative. It’s our mind which gives instruction to all parts of our body to do or not to do something. It’s our mind influences feeling and power for being afraid or dared to decide something. The way in managing our mind is the most important key for a man to be successful.

Someone who learn to ride a bicycle, for example,  he’ll never be able to ride it as long as he thinks that he’s a bad rider somehow. Every time he feels afraid of falling, he will be reluctant to ride it.
It shows a big difference when we talk about someone who dared himself to try and face some risks in riding it. For having such the positive mind, it’s not a difficult thing for him to ride it and balance his body as well. And finally he’s getting better in riding it.

It is the courage comes from the way we manage our mind which help we learn to do something new better. Without a good mind-management, we’ll never have courage to begin things. The positive power exactly comes from the positive mind.

It’s the absolute truth that life is about point of view. It means how we show our attitude in solving all of problems. Having a good and positive point of view must give positive attitude and feeling for any kind of problem we face.

Talking about point of view, someone can see some happening from some point view. Generally this view can be divided into two sides, they ‘re positive and negative point of view. These views are in contradiction each other and have certain role for ones to have certain attitude.

The positive point of view is the positive attitude ones have in solving any kind of problem.
First, No matter what happens, we have to be able to see the positive things in it. This principle will make us to have clear mind to find better solution.
Second, the positive point of view must give us understanding about hikmat and some benefits we will get from the problem we face.
Third, The positive point of view must give us understanding that everyone and everything in this world are created different. No one is absolutely identical and nothing is exactly same.
Fourth, it leads us to believe that god not only created problems but the solution as well.

DON’T WORRY AND BE HAPPY, EVERYTHING’S GONNA BE
ALL RIGHT.
By : a man who takes a bath by himself twice a day
   

Kamis, 01 Mei 2014

It's Me, I, and Myself





For me, personally, writing this topic is not only silly but also confusing as well. In case I don’t have any good motivational idea to write, so why don’t I write some good and crazy sides of my life. Today’s topic is all about me. Let’s call “it’s me” topic. Well, I have to tell the world about me, I, and myself…Who really I am…What I’m doing…How often I take a bath… What do I look like (Extremely handsome, I guess)…and of course little bit of romantic stuff. Here we go….

In days long gone by, exactly In March 12th 1987 , a cute baby was born. It’s me.  I was born in Majalengka as an ordinary baby and  a real male of course. Real male…that’ s what my future wife should know. 
 
What things I like ? All right, I like good music and interesting movies. I like comedies. I like reading a lot books, not magazines. I like redecorating home and gardening in the yard. I like travelling. And last but not the least, I like beautiful girl since I’m a normal guy, I told you what. But all of this don’t describe me completely. And to know me better just communicate with me and you will know much more about me. For gals and guys in the world generally and in west java especially, here you are my cell phone number : 089 660 238 104. What a genuine guy I am !!!


Actually I’m not a good actor in doing house chores. I rarely wash the dishes. I sometimes cook. I never take care my kids because I never have them, fair enough. The only one good side of me is I always make my bed in the morning and take a bath by myself twice a day.

My typical day begins with the ring of alarm clock. I get up so early since I have to devote to my God as a moslem. Then I have breakfast just like Justin Bieber does in USA but with different menus here : sorabi, bala-bala, awug aci, sangu koneng.
About 8 or 9 o’clock I usually go to market to earn some money or go gym to do fitness to keep my body in shape. And about 12 o’clock I prepare myself to do the other job as an English instructor.


What I do in my leisure time ? I like to spend my free time educating and reading books. When I have a minute for that I try to spend it on my favorite chair with the book on the hand, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to go out. I like going travelling, but unfortunately I don’t have a lot of free time to do that so often. 

The type of girl that I desire is…. ? There are many qualities I appreciate in girls but the most important for me is inner beauty. I think that I’m a man who’s worth a nice and good girl. Because I’m a moslem, so I need a girl with the same belief of course. Then, she should be smart and interesting girl. I want her to be kind and caring. 

                                          Here you are one of my favorite girls :


The type of girl that I dislike is a girl who talk about money too much. Let’s say a materialistic girl.
                                   And here you are one of the girls I dislike :


My future goals for this moment are like most of men, I want to find the true love of my life, the girl to whom I can create the family and share the rest of my life. The girl that will appreciate all that I do for her, and can answer to me in the same way. The girl who can show me the real love, NOT the girl who just show me the fake love because of money.

THIS STATEMENT IS WRITTEN BASED ON THE TRUE FACT OF THE WRITER’S LIFE
By : a handsome man who washes his own jacket