It's Me, I, and Myself

For me, personally, writing this topic is not only silly but also confusing as well. In case I don’t have any good motivational idea to write, so why don’t I write some good and crazy sides of my life. Today’s topic is all about me. Let’s call “it’s me” topic. Well, I have to tell the world about me, I, and myself…Who really I am…What I’m doing…How often I take a bath… What do I look like (Extremely handsome, I guess)…and of course little bit of romantic stuff. Here we go….

In days long gone by, exactly In March 12^th 1987 , a cute baby was born. It’s me.  I was born in Majalengka as an ordinary baby and  a real male of course. Real male…that’ s what my future wife should know. 

 

What things I like ? All right, I like good music and interesting movies. I like comedies. I like reading a lot books, not magazines. I like redecorating home and gardening in the yard. I like travelling. And last but not the least, I like beautiful girl since I’m a normal guy, I told you what. But all of this don’t describe me completely. And to know me better just communicate with me and you will know much more about me. For gals and guys in the world generally and in west java especially, here you are my cell phone number : 089 660 238 104. What a genuine guy I am !!!

Actually I’m not a good actor in doing house chores. I rarely wash the dishes. I sometimes cook. I never take care my kids because I never have them, fair enough. The only one good side of me is I always make my bed in the morning and take a bath by myself twice a day.

My typical day begins with the ring of alarm clock. I get up so early since I have to devote to my God as a moslem. Then I have breakfast just like Justin Bieber does in USA but with different menus here : sorabi, bala-bala, awug aci, sangu koneng.

About 8 or 9 o’clock I usually go to market to earn some money or go gym to do fitness to keep my body in shape. And about 12 o’clock I prepare myself to do the other job as an English instructor.

What I do in my leisure time ? I like to spend my free time educating and reading books. When I have a minute for that I try to spend it on my favorite chair with the book on the hand, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to go out. I like going travelling, but unfortunately I don’t have a lot of free time to do that so often. 

The type of girl that I desire is…. ? There are many qualities I appreciate in girls but the most important for me is inner beauty. I think that I’m a man who’s worth a nice and good girl. Because I’m a moslem, so I need a girl with the same belief of course. Then, she should be smart and interesting girl. I want her to be kind and caring. 

                                          Here you are one of my favorite girls :

The type of girl that I dislike is a girl who talk about money too much. Let’s say a materialistic girl.

                                   And here you are one of the girls I dislike :

My future goals for this moment are like most of men, I want to find the true love of my life, the girl to whom I can create the family and share the rest of my life. The girl that will appreciate all that I do for her, and can answer to me in the same way. The girl who can show me the real love, NOT the girl who just show me the fake love because of money.

THIS STATEMENT IS WRITTEN BASED ON THE TRUE FACT OF THE WRITER’S LIFE

By : a handsome man who washes his own jacket

SITU PINGIN JADI APA…?

Do you still remember the last time you’re asked about your dream ? Was it in Elementary School, Junior High School or Senior High School ? Do you still remember what’s your childhood  dream ?

If the same question asked today, I think some people still get confused what their really dream is….What they are living for…it’s no doubt if there are some guys who are not sure about their own dream. They even can’t make any differences between the real dream and the fake dream.

The question about what we’re living for is not an easy thing to answer. It’s all worse if we realize the our living is still not clear. I mean, most of people still worry whether their job they ‘ve got today will secure their future. Even some of them still worry whether they ‘re going to eat or not tomorrow morning.

Actually its’ not easy to decide a target in our life. Most of us still live without any target of living since we are get used living like that, living without any target. Most of us even live with no dream. Live just to eat and drink and wait for dying.

Maybe sometimes we got some ones with certain ambition but it’s actually not their own dream. Some of them graduated from senior high school or rolled some colleges just to get some titles and make their family and friends proud of him/her. They ‘re like a robot who moves and think under a remote control.

It’s about the time to think and decide what kind of dream we ‘re gonna living for. Decide some targets and find the way to get them.

It’s true that we never know what the future is going to be, but at least, by deciding the target we’ll live on the right path with right focus.

Think…..What kind of job that make you feel glad in doing it. Think…..What kind of activities that  make you involved in not only physically but mentally as well. 

As Donald Trump said, DO WHAT YOU LOVE AND LOVE WHAT YOU DO. 

It’s the way you will get the supreme life that people dream of in every single time.

Never force yourself to do something you dislike. It just get you to have struggle life and make you live as a slave of living. It’s a horrible thing you have to deal with as well.

DECIDE WHAT THE MOST DESIRED STUFFS IN YOUR LIFE

By : a wise man with some exciting dreams

EVERLASTING HAPPINESS

The most desirable thing that people all over the world looking for is happiness. No matter what someone does, whether he’s a doctor, engineer, sales man or what ever, they’re looking happiness. The happiness with different indicators.

A student studies hard  because of an assumption that if he studies hard, he’s gonna get a good score or pass the exam. It may be the most exciting dream for him. Or we can say that the first ranking might be indicator of his happiness.

Then have a look at workers, employees or a businessman, what ‘re they gonna say about happiness ?  is it getting a good score or the first ranking ? Absolutely NOT. In this case, money or prestige must be the indicator of their happiness.

Or it could be a cute baby as an indicator of happiness for a  spouse who have been  married for fifteen years with no kids.

We’re absolutely different. We’re doing different things and live in different lands. But we’re looking for the same thing, it’s HAPPINESS.

Then you may wonder about happiness itself. Why people never get satisfaction in getting happiness… Why Ferraris you’ve got, never stop you getting Lamborginis… why the happiness you’ve got just leads you being  greedy….

Look at the students, the happiness they‘ve got is running temporarily. It’s short happiness. After passing one exam they have to prepare their selves to face the harder exams.

The happiness you’ve got sometimes leads you to feel uncomfortable instead of satisfying. The happiness you’ve got frequently make you feel worry of not getting the same successful story in the future.

It’s because…” THIS IS THE PERISHABLE WORLD”.  Everything’s gonna be lost…Everyone’s gonna be gone. Don’t feel too excited when you’ve got a successful story and don’t get too confused every time get failure. Neither Nothing nor Nobody is gonna be last for good. Never feel so lost, because the sun’s gonna rise tomorrow morning. Never be so lonely because some nice friends are gonna come.

This world is not our real place. It’s just a typical of brittle boat that’s gonna be left. It’s Nirvana for our real home where some people will laugh forever and the others will have an endless bitterness.     

No matter how hard we’re living our life, No matter how sad and depressed we’re. Just make sure that we’re gonna live in the promised paradise.

BEWARE OF MELANCHOLIC MUSICS

Music has been an important part of humans’ life. It can’t be taken away from our activities. Beginning from waking up in the morning until sleeping at night, the music is always alive. It can be found on radio, cell-phone, or television.

People has recently had different point of view about music itself. It’s not only just a kind of the entertainment programs but it also has been a kind of business commodity. Music has been a nice facility where people can express their feeling and change their psychology. Furthermore, classical music is believed in teasing brain and improving the intelligence to a higher level, giving motivation, and creating relaxed mind. 

Actually, music gives not only the positive effects but also the negative ones for the listeners. Especially the music which has melancholic rhythm or sad lyrics. I feel sorry seeing a lot of teens who watch and enjoy the performance of vocalists who sing melancholic songs which full of sadness and bitterness. I think you knew what kind of TV programs are, Let’s say DE***NGS, IN*OX,etc. There’re so many teens who enjoy that fucki’ sad songs, sing them more and more every time and everywhere. Is it possible for the teens to begin their days and face some problems in their life after listening to sad songs for hours on television almost every single day?

It seems that Soekarno had issued a rule that Indonesian people are forbidden to both make and listen to any kind of sad songs. Actually I still wonder whether the research of danger in listening bad songs had been done at that time or not.

Listening to a sad song is dangerous. Is it true or just a hoax? NO. This phenomenon can be explained scientifically. Some experts said that listening to sad songs can produce serotonin in our brain. It means that we ‘re gonna feel so sad and dropped. The consequence is we feel unmotivated, really easy to get tired, weak, and worn out.

It’s like a magic or hypnotism. The series of sad lyrics that we listen to and sing over and over can really happen in our life. It’s like the dream comes true. Unfortunately, it’s a horrible dream. How can it happen ? last years, the book titled The Hidden Messages in Water shook the science. In that book Masaru Emoto proved that water can respond differently to certain words by showing different crystal.

The water that is treated by beautiful words such as, love, sorry, beautiful, and thanks shows beautiful crystal with amazing colors. While the water which is treated by negative sound words expresses a bad crytal with horrible colors.

Then, every body’s already known that our body are most composed by water. It means that we are really easy and sensitive to respond to any kind of words that we hear every time. From now on, it’s extremely important for us to get used to listen to good and wise words only, not to negative ones.